Some women are super sexy just because of the luck of biochemistry. That's right. It's their pheromones, which is their natural scent and body aroma, which is attractive to men and women. Pheromones, however, can't really be tinkered with. No perfume has been created that duplicates them perfectly. You've either got the super-sexy pheromone gene or you don't.
The things any woman can do to be more super sexy are not that difficult to pull off. Mostly they have to do more with the ability to read and convey body language, and some upgrades in verbal and listening skills. My book, "Read My Hips: The Sexy Art of Flirtation," addresses this. One of the easiest things you can do is to use your hands. Use them to accent what you're saying. Wrap them provocatively around the stem of your wine glass. Use them to slowly unbutton one significant button on your sweater or your blouse. Use them to reach out and touch someone.
Other super-sexy body-language tips include leg crossing, lip licking, eye contact and leaning forward. Learn to read his body language. Flared nostrils are a sign he's very attracted. When you're leaving, don't just walk away. Turn and pivot.
Active listening, which is a therapeutic skill, can also be super sexy. It's about concentration. Look at him while he's talking. Focus your gaze alternately on his eyes and moving mouth. Repeat back to him some of his key phrases. Mirror him.
Remember you don't have to be super sexy all the time. Focus your sexual energy when you want it to work most. It's a tool, and a powerful tool, yours to use when you want. Eve Marx is the author of eight sex books. Her titles include "What's Your Sexual IQ?," "Flirtspeak: The Sexy Language of Flirtation," "The Goddess Orgasm," and "101 Things You Didn't Know About Sex.". By ThirdAge(dot)com
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